Hooking Up

Los Angeles has always been a place that makes its own rules. There is no “going by the book” here—a truth that carries an exquisite thrill when applied to finding love. Is dating complicated in this town? Sure. But does the city also pulse with the promise of intimate and satisfying connection? Palpably. Our metropolis is in the midst of a sexual evolution, an era in which communicating your desires is the biggest turn-on of all. We’re here to walk you through it, from sexting and bondage to ghosting and heartbreak. Ready? Let’s do it.

Edited by Marielle Wakim


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